bcachefs: Fix a write buffer flush deadlock

bcachefs: Fix a write buffer flush deadlock

We're not supposed to block if BTREE_INSERT_JOURNAL_RECLAIM && watermark
!= BCH_WATERMARK_reclaim.

This should really be a separate BTREE_INSERT_NONBLOCK flag - add some
comments to that effect, it's not important for this patch.

btree write buffer flush depends on this behaviour though - the first
loop tries to flush sequentially, which doesn't free up space in the
journal optimally. If that can't proceed we bail out and flush in
journal order - that won't work if we're blocked instead of returning an
error.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>