drm/xe: Convert remaining instances of ttm_eu_reserve_buffers to drm_exec

drm/xe: Convert remaining instances of ttm_eu_reserve_buffers to drm_exec

The VM_BIND functionality and vma destruction was locking
potentially multiple dma_resv objects using the
ttm_eu_reserve_buffers() function. Rework those to use the drm_exec
helper, taking care that any calls to xe_bo_validate() ends up
inside an unsealed locking transaction.

v4:
- Remove an unbalanced xe_bo_put() (igt and Matthew Brost)
v5:
- Rebase conflict

Signed-off-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20230908091716.36984-7-thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Rodrigo Vivi <rodrigo.vivi@intel.com>