overflow: add DEFINE_FLEX() for on-stack allocs

overflow: add DEFINE_FLEX() for on-stack allocs

Add DEFINE_FLEX() macro for on-stack allocations of structs with
flexible array member.

Expose __struct_size() macro outside of fortify-string.h, as it could be
used to read size of structs allocated by DEFINE_FLEX().
Move __member_size() alongside it.
-Kees

Using underlying array for on-stack storage lets us to declare
known-at-compile-time structures without kzalloc().

Actual usage for ice driver is in following patches of the series.

Missing __has_builtin() workaround is moved up to serve also assembly
compilation with m68k-linux-gcc, see [1].
Error was (note the .S file extension):
In file included from ../include/linux/linkage.h:5,
                 from ../arch/m68k/fpsp040/skeleton.S:40:
../include/linux/compiler_types.h:331:5: warning: "__has_builtin" is not defined, evaluates to 0 [-Wundef]
  331 | #if __has_builtin(__builtin_dynamic_object_size)
      |     ^~~~~~~~~~~~~
../include/linux/compiler_types.h:331:18: error: missing binary operator before token "("
  331 | #if __has_builtin(__builtin_dynamic_object_size)
      |                  ^

[1] https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/202308112122.OuF0YZqL-lkp@intel.com/
Co-developed-by: Kees Cook <keescook@chromium.org>
Signed-off-by: Kees Cook <keescook@chromium.org>
Signed-off-by: Przemek Kitszel <przemyslaw.kitszel@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230912115937.1645707-2-przemyslaw.kitszel@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>