migration: Fix hang after error in destination setup phase

migration: Fix hang after error in destination setup phase

If the destination side fails at migration_ioc_process_incoming()
before starting the coroutine, it will report the error but QEMU will
not exit.

Set the migration state to FAILED and exit the process if
exit-on-error allows.

Resolves: https://gitlab.com/qemu-project/qemu/-/issues/2633
Reported-by: Daniel P. Berrangé <berrange@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20250213175927.19642-5-farosas@suse.de>
Signed-off-by: Fabiano Rosas <farosas@suse.de>