closures: Better memory barriers

closures: Better memory barriers

atomic_(dec|sub)_return_release() are a thing now - use them.

Also, delete the useless barrier in set_closure_fn(): it's redundant
with the memory barrier in closure_put(0.

Since closure_put() would now otherwise just have a release barrier, we
also need a new barrier when the ref hits 0 -
smp_acquire__after_ctrl_dep().

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>