dlm: merge toss and keep hash table lists into one list

dlm: merge toss and keep hash table lists into one list

There are several places where lock processing can perform two hash table
lookups, first in the "keep" list, and if not found, in the "toss" list.
This patch introduces a new rsb state flag "RSB_TOSS" to represent the
difference between the state of being on keep vs toss list, so that the
two lists can be combined.  This avoids cases of two lookups.

Signed-off-by: Alexander Aring <aahringo@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Teigland <teigland@redhat.com>