bcachefs: Rhashtable based buckets_in_flight for copygc

bcachefs: Rhashtable based buckets_in_flight for copygc

Previously, copygc used a fifo for tracking buckets in flight - this had
the disadvantage of being fixed size, since we pass references to
elements into the move code.

This restructures it to be a hash table and linked list, since with
erasure coding we need to be able to pipeline across an arbitrary number
of buckets.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>