bcachefs: don't block reads if we're promoting

bcachefs: don't block reads if we're promoting

The promote path calls data_update_init() and now that we take locks here,
there's potential for promote to block our read path, just error
when we can't take the lock instead of blocking.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Hill <daniel@gluo.nz>
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>