nbd: Defer trace init until after daemonization

nbd: Defer trace init until after daemonization

At least the simple trace backend works by spawning a helper thread,
and setting up an atexit() handler that coordinates completion with
the helper thread.  But since atexit registrations survive fork() but
helper threads do not, this means that qemu-nbd configured to use the
simple trace will deadlock waiting for a thread that no longer exists
when it has daemonized.

Better is to follow the example of vl.c: don't call any setup
functions that might spawn helper threads until we are in the final
process that will be doing the work worth tracing.

Tested by configuring with --enable-trace-backends=simple, then running
  qemu-nbd --fork --trace=nbd_\*,file=qemu-nbd.trace -f raw -r README.rst
followed by `nbdinfo nbd://localhost`, and observing that the trace
file is now created without hanging.

Reported-by: Thomas Huth <thuth@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20250227220625.870246-2-eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Huth <thuth@redhat.com>