KVM: arm64: vgic: Ensure the irq refcount is nonzero when taking a ref

KVM: arm64: vgic: Ensure the irq refcount is nonzero when taking a ref

It will soon be possible for get() and put() calls to happen in
parallel, which means in most cases we must ensure the refcount is
nonzero when taking a new reference. Switch to using
vgic_try_get_irq_kref() where necessary, and document the few conditions
where an IRQ's refcount is guaranteed to be nonzero.

Reviewed-by: Marc Zyngier <maz@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240221054253.3848076-10-oliver.upton@linux.dev
Signed-off-by: Oliver Upton <oliver.upton@linux.dev>