xfs: add raw parent pointer apis to support repair

xfs: add raw parent pointer apis to support repair

Add a couple of utility functions to set or remove parent pointers from
a file.  These functions will be used by repair code, hence they skip
the xattr logging that regular parent pointer updates use.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <djwong@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>