rust: alloc: update `VecExt` to take allocation flags

rust: alloc: update `VecExt` to take allocation flags

We also rename the methods by removing the `try_` prefix since the names
are available due to our usage of the `no_global_oom_handling` config
when building the `alloc` crate.

Reviewed-by: Boqun Feng <boqun.feng@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Wedson Almeida Filho <walmeida@microsoft.com>
Reviewed-by: Benno Lossin <benno.lossin@proton.me>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240328013603.206764-8-wedsonaf@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Miguel Ojeda <ojeda@kernel.org>