bcachefs: Add support for doing btree updates prior to journal replay

bcachefs: Add support for doing btree updates prior to journal replay

Some errors may need to be fixed in order for GC to successfully run -
walk and mark all metadata. But we can't start the allocators and do
normal btree updates until after GC has completed, and allocation
information is known to be consistent, so we need a different method of
doing btree updates.

Fortunately, we already have code for walking the btree while overlaying
keys from the journal to be replayed. This patch adds an update path
that adds keys to the list of keys to be replayed by journal replay, and
also fixes up iterators.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>