bcachefs: Fix is_ancestor bitmap

bcachefs: Fix is_ancestor bitmap

The is_ancestor bitmap is at optimization for bch2_snapshot_is_ancestor;
once we get sufficiently close to the ancestor ID we're searching for we
test a bitmap.

But initialization of the is_ancestor bitmap was broken; we do it by
using bch2_snapshot_parent(), but we call that on nodes that haven't
been initialized yet with bch2_mark_snapshot().

Fix this by adding a separate loop in bch2_snapshots_read() for
initializing the is_ancestor bitmap, and also add some new debug asserts
for checking this sort of breakage in the future.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>