ice: Implement VLAN tag hint

ice: Implement VLAN tag hint

Implement .xmo_rx_vlan_tag callback to allow XDP code to read
packet's VLAN tag.

At the same time, use vlan_tci instead of vlan_tag in touched code,
because VLAN tag often refers to VLAN proto and VLAN TCI combined,
while in the code we clearly store only VLAN TCI.

Reviewed-by: Maciej Fijalkowski <maciej.fijalkowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Larysa Zaremba <larysa.zaremba@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231205210847.28460-11-larysa.zaremba@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>