netlink: hide validation union fields from kdoc

netlink: hide validation union fields from kdoc

Mark the validation fields as private, users shouldn't set
them directly and they are too complicated to explain in
a more succinct way (there's already a long explanation
in the comment above).

The strict_start_type field is set directly and has a dedicated
comment so move that above the "private" section.

Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221027212107.2639255-1-kuba@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>