bcachefs: Fix for shared paths in write buffer flush

bcachefs: Fix for shared paths in write buffer flush

It's possible for bch2_write_buffer_flush_one() to end up with a shared
path, if called from a context that already has a btree iterator
pointing to a key being flushed. We have to be careful when that
happens, since we can't clone a path that holds write locks.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>