bcachefs: Unwritten extents support

bcachefs: Unwritten extents support

 - bch2_extent_merge checks unwritten bit
 - read path returns 0s for unwritten extents without actually reading
 - reflink path skips over unwritten extents
 - bch2_bkey_ptrs_invalid() checks for extents with both written and
   unwritten extents, and non-normal extents (stripes, btree ptrs) with
   unwritten ptrs
 - fiemap checks for unwritten extents and returns
   FIEMAP_EXTENT_UNWRITTEN

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>