cxl/uapi: Tag commands from cxl_query_cmd()

cxl/uapi: Tag commands from cxl_query_cmd()

It was pointed out that commands not supported by the device or excluded
by the kernel were being returned in cxl_query_cmd().[1]

While libcxl correctly handles failing commands, it is more efficient to
not issue an invalid command in the first place.  This can't be done
without additional information being returned from cxl_query_cmd().  In
addition, information about the availability of commands can be useful
for debugging.

Add flags to struct cxl_command_info which reflect if a command is
enabled and/or exclusive to the kernel.

[1] https://lore.kernel.org/all/63b4ec4e37cc1_5178e2941d@dwillia2-xfh.jf.intel.com.notmuch/

Suggested-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221222-cxl-misc-v4-3-62f701c1cdd1@intel.com
Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>