bcachefs: Change check for invalid key types

bcachefs: Change check for invalid key types

As part of the forward compatibility patch series, we need to allow for
new key types without complaining loudly when running an old version.

This patch changes the flags parameter of bkey_invalid to an enum, and
adds a new flag to indicate we're being called from the transaction
commit path.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>