Revert "vhost-user: fix lost reconnect"

Revert "vhost-user: fix lost reconnect"

This reverts commit f02a4b8e6431598612466f76aac64ab492849abf.

Since the current patch cannot completely fix the lost reconnect
problem, there is a scenario that is not considered:
- When the virtio-blk driver is removed from the guest os,
  s->connected has no chance to be set to false, resulting in
  subsequent reconnection not being executed.

The next patch will completely fix this issue with a better approach.

Signed-off-by: Li Feng <fengli@smartx.com>
Message-Id: <20240516025753.130171-2-fengli@smartx.com>
Reviewed-by: Raphael Norwitz <raphael@enfabrica.net>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>