md/raid1: use the atomic queue limit update APIs

md/raid1: use the atomic queue limit update APIs

Build the queue limits outside the queue and apply them using
queue_limits_set.  To make the code more obvious also split the queue
limits handling into a separate helper function.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed--by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Tested-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Song Liu <song@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240303140150.5435-7-hch@lst.de