bcachefs: Add more time_stats

bcachefs: Add more time_stats

This adds more latency/event measurements and breaks some apart into
more events. Journal writes are broken apart into flush writes and
noflush writes, btree compactions are broken out from btree splits,
btree mergers are added, as well as btree_interior_updates - foreground
and total.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>