hw/cxl: Check for multiple mappings of memory backends.

hw/cxl: Check for multiple mappings of memory backends.

Similar protection to that provided for -numa memdev=x
to make sure that memory used to back a type3 device is not also mapped
as normal RAM, or for multiple type3 devices.

This is an easy footgun to remove and seems multiple people have
run into it.

Signed-off-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Message-Id: <20240705113956.941732-4-Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>