mptcp: consolidate sockopt synchronization

mptcp: consolidate sockopt synchronization

Move the socket option synchronization for active subflows
at subflow creation time. This allows removing the now unused
unlocked variant of such helper.

While at that, clean-up a bit the mptcp_subflow_create_socket()
errors path.

Reviewed-by: Mat Martineau <martineau@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mat Martineau <martineau@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20231023-send-net-next-20231023-2-v1-7-9dc60939d371@kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>