vfio/migration: Convert bytes_transferred counter to atomic

vfio/migration: Convert bytes_transferred counter to atomic

So it can be safety accessed from multiple threads.

This variable type needs to be changed to unsigned long since
32-bit host platforms lack the necessary addition atomics on 64-bit
variables.

Using 32-bit counters on 32-bit host platforms should not be a problem
in practice since they can't realistically address more memory anyway.

Reviewed-by: Cédric Le Goater <clg@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Maciej S. Szmigiero <maciej.szmigiero@oracle.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/qemu-devel/dc391771d2d9ad0f311994f0cb9e666da564aeaf.1741124640.git.maciej.szmigiero@oracle.com
Signed-off-by: Cédric Le Goater <clg@redhat.com>