rust: sync: update `Arc` and `UniqueArc` to take allocation flags

rust: sync: update `Arc` and `UniqueArc` to take allocation flags

We also remove the `try_` prefix to align with how `Box` and `Vec` are
providing methods now.

`init` is temporarily updated with uses of GFP_KERNEL. These will be
updated in a subsequent patch to take flags as well.

Reviewed-by: Benno Lossin <benno.lossin@proton.me>
Signed-off-by: Wedson Almeida Filho <walmeida@microsoft.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240328013603.206764-9-wedsonaf@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Miguel Ojeda <ojeda@kernel.org>