hw/cxl/device: Add memory device utilities

hw/cxl/device: Add memory device utilities

Memory devices implement extra capabilities on top of CXL devices. This
adds support for that.

A large part of memory devices is the mailbox/command interface. All of
the mailbox handling is done in the mailbox-utils library. Longer term,
new CXL devices that are being emulated may want to handle commands
differently, and therefore would need a mechanism to opt in/out of the
specific generic handlers. As such, this is considered sufficient for
now, but may need more depth in the future.

Signed-off-by: Ben Widawsky <ben.widawsky@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Bennée <alex.bennee@linaro.org>
Message-Id: <20220429144110.25167-8-Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>