bcachefs: Revalidate pointer to old bkey val before calling mem triggers

bcachefs: Revalidate pointer to old bkey val before calling mem triggers

We recently started stashing a copy of the key being overwritten in
btree_insert_entry: this is helpful for avoiding multiple calls to
bch2_btree_path_peek_slot() and bch2_journal_keys_peek() in the
transaction commit path.

But it turns out this has a problem - when we run mem/atomic triggers,
we've done a couple things that can invalidate the pointer to the old
key's value. This makes the optimization of stashing a pointer to the
old value questionable, but for now this patch revalidates that pointer
before running mem triggers.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@gmail.com>