Split config.h into private and public config

Split config.h into private and public config

This addresses https://github.com/libfuse/libfuse/issues/729

commit db35a37def14b72181f3630efeea0e0433103c41 introduced a public
config.h (rename to fuse_config.h to avoid conflicts) that
was installed with the package and included by libfuse users
through fuse_common.h. Probablem is that this file does not have
unique defines so that they are unique to libfuse - on including
the file conflicts with libfuse users came up.

In principle all defines could be prefixed, but then most of them
are internal for libfuse compilation only. So this splits out
publically required defines to a new file 'libfuse_config.h'
and changes back to include of "fuse_config.h" only when
HAVE_LIBFUSE_PRIVATE_CONFIG_H is defined.

This also renames HAVE_LIBC_VERSIONED_SYMBOLS to
LIBFUSE_BUILT_WITH_VERSIONED_SYMBOLS, as it actually
better explains for libfuse users what that variable
is for.