bcachefs: bcachefs_metadata_version_deleted_inodes

bcachefs: bcachefs_metadata_version_deleted_inodes

Add a new bitset btree for inodes pending deletion; this means we no
longer have to scan the full inodes btree after an unclean shutdown.

Specifically, this adds:
 - a trigger to update the deleted_inodes btree based on changes to the
   inodes btree
 - a new recovery pass
 - and check_inodes is now only a fsck pass.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>