vhost-user: add VHOST_USER_GET_QUEUE_NUM message

vhost-user: add VHOST_USER_GET_QUEUE_NUM message

This is for querying how many queues the backend supports if it has mq
support(when VHOST_USER_PROTOCOL_F_MQ flag is set from the quried
protocol features).

vhost_net_get_max_queues() is the interface to export that value, and
to tell if the backend supports # of queues user requested, which is
done in the following patch.

Signed-off-by: Yuanhan Liu <yuanhan.liu@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Yuanhan Liu <yuanhan.liu@linux.intel.com>
Tested-by: Marcel Apfelbaum <marcel@redhat.com>