os: add an ability to lock memory on_fault

os: add an ability to lock memory on_fault

This will be used in the following commits to make it possible to only
lock memory on fault instead of right away.

Signed-off-by: Daniil Tatianin <d-tatianin@yandex-team.ru>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@yandex-team.ru>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250212143920.1269754-2-d-tatianin@yandex-team.ru
[peterx: fail os_mlock(on_fault=1) when not supported]
[peterx: use G_GNUC_UNUSED instead of "(void)on_fault", per Dan]
Signed-off-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>