KVM: Treat the device list as an rculist

KVM: Treat the device list as an rculist

A subsequent change to KVM/arm64 will necessitate walking the device
list outside of the kvm->lock. Prepare by converting to an rculist. This
has zero effect on the VM destruction path, as it is expected every
reader is backed by a reference on the kvm struct.

On the other hand, ensure a given device is completely destroyed before
dropping the kvm->lock in the release() path, as certain devices expect
to be a singleton (e.g. the vfio-kvm device).

Cc: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Cc: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Oliver Upton <oliver.upton@linux.dev>
Reviewed-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240422200158.2606761-2-oliver.upton@linux.dev
Signed-off-by: Marc Zyngier <maz@kernel.org>