RDMA/cm: Use DLID from inbound/outbound PathRecords as the datapath DLID

RDMA/cm: Use DLID from inbound/outbound PathRecords as the datapath DLID

In inter-subnet cases, when inbound/outbound PRs are available,
outbound_PR.dlid is used as the requestor's datapath DLID and
inbound_PR.dlid is used as the responder's DLID. The inbound_PR.dlid
is passed to responder side with the "ConnectReq.Primary_Local_Port_LID"
field. With this solution the PERMISSIVE_LID is no longer used in
Primary Local LID field.

Signed-off-by: Mark Zhang <markzhang@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/b3f6cac685bce9dde37c610be82e2c19d9e51d9e.1662631201.git.leonro@nvidia.com
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>