vhost-user: fully use new backend/frontend naming

vhost-user: fully use new backend/frontend naming

Slave/master nomenclature was replaced with backend/frontend in commit
1fc19b65279a ("vhost-user: Adopt new backend naming")

This patch replaces all remaining uses of master and slave in the
codebase.

Signed-off-by: Emmanouil Pitsidianakis <manos.pitsidianakis@linaro.org>
Message-Id: <20230613080849.2115347-1-manos.pitsidianakis@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>