bpf: Move nf_conn extern declarations to filter.h

bpf: Move nf_conn extern declarations to filter.h

We're seeing the following new warnings on netdev/build_32bit and
netdev/build_allmodconfig_warn CI jobs:

    ../net/core/filter.c:8608:1: warning: symbol
    'nf_conn_btf_access_lock' was not declared. Should it be static?
    ../net/core/filter.c:8611:5: warning: symbol 'nfct_bsa' was not
    declared. Should it be static?

Fix by ensuring extern declaration is present while compiling filter.o.

Fixes: 864b656f82cc ("bpf: Add support for writing to nf_conn:mark")
Signed-off-by: Daniel Xu <dxu@dxuuu.xyz>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/2bd2e0283df36d8a4119605878edb1838d144174.1663683114.git.dxu@dxuuu.xyz
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>