virtiofsd: Convert lo_destroy to take the lo->mutex lock itself

virtiofsd: Convert lo_destroy to take the lo->mutex lock itself

lo_destroy was relying on some implicit knowledge of the locking;
we can avoid this if we create an unref_inode that doesn't take
the lock and then grab it for the whole of the lo_destroy.

Suggested-by: Vivek Goyal <vgoyal@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Philippe Mathieu-Daudé <philmd@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>